i finally got to meet susan, our new neighbor from uganda, today. john helped her, husband raymond and 3 yr old shannon move in 2 weekends ago. they're renting, too, and hoping to find a house sometime in the future. caroline and i visited with susan for a long time today. shannon goes to daycare so susan can go on job interviews. susan and raymond grew up in uganda and both graduated from university there. raymond is a software engineer and susan has experience in the insurance business. they are such sweet people with the most beautiful smiles. i had so much fun talking to her about life in uganda and adjusting to life in america. she's only been in the states for a little over a year, but her english is excellent as they learn it from a young age in uganda. she misses her family and friends and especially the way they live life in uganda. she talked about how you all live close to each other and the kids all play together all day in a common courtyard, totally safe, going in a out of each other's homes. she said they want more children, but it's harder here b/c you have so much help in uganda. basically, all susan did when shannon was born was breastfeed her and then family and/or friends did the rest. i think they've got the right idea and we've got it totally wrong. she said how shannon's personality has changed. she seeks more attention here than in uganda and had to adjust to living life "enclosed". how sad that our children don't know that kind of life? we have to think of a million activities to keep them "entertained". anyway, she was so open and warm and blessed my heart. hopefully, we'll get to hang out with them alot! i think shannon and caroline will love playing together.....